Bondage in everyday life could be very relaxing or stimulating, and it deepens the connection between people. Experts agree that bondage is not sexual in nature. We practice bondage because the benefit that it brings.
Here are some stories of casual bondage for your enjoyment:
My sub, who until we got together had no experience with bondage, has started to really enjoy being tied up even at times where we're not being explicitly sexual or doing anything else kink related. Like, for example, if we're watching a movie on the couch, I'll tie her arms behind her and her legs together and she'll watch with her head in my lap while I run my fingers through her hair. Sometimes it evolves into something else, other times we just stay like that and do what we were doing. She tells me it's very relaxing, and it's quickly become one of her favorite after-work activities. Does anyone else enjoy this? Personally, I find it a lot of fun.
—posted by GoodCatholicGuy
I've been doing this with my girl for several years, except we use a straitjacket; she can wear it for long periods of time, long enough to watch a movie, or a few episodes of something on Netflix, then continue wearing it as we retire to the boudoir.
She'll often have some wine in a sippy cup worn around her neck.
I was briefly with a girl who could remain in hands-behind-the-back/legs-tied bondage for quite some time; we watched the entirety of 'Thor: Ragnarok' this way. But she was still young and flexible while my current girl and I are both old and increasingly decrepit. So the straitjacket it is!
I only discovered this particular kink five years ago, but I suppose it was something I'd been interested in for quite some time, I just didn't realize it.
—posted by Piratestann
Casual kink in general is one of my favorite things.
Light spanking while we're watching something on the TV (head will be on his lap, relaxing and having gentle spanks), wearing my cuffs on my ankles even if we're not in high protocol for us, wearing very little and just the collar just because... things like that are a lot of fun.
We don't need to necessarily be doing anything explicit, it's just a nice solidification of our lifestyle and our 24/7 dynamic.
If we were more into bondage, we'd probably mess with that a bit more too. I'm not really a rope person, more of a collar and leash or chill in my comfy cage kind of person.
—posted by ToraRyeder
This is one of my main fantasies, actually, casual and/or not-overtly-sexual bondage. Sometimes, just for fun, I will slip a hair tie over both my wrists. Holds them together in exactly the right position and can be quickly slipped off if anyone comes along. Soothing and puts me in a slightly different headspace.
If I had a partner who was into the same, I'd love for them to tie my wrists together and hold me while watching a movie. Also have a fantasy about a punishment where they tie me spread eagle to the bed and leave me there for several hours, teaching me how to let go and submit. By the time they returned, I'd be totally pliable and ready for a spanking, a lecture, and then the overtly sexy part of the day!
—posted by uptiedand8