Checklists are frequently difficult to complete due to the complex variety to what we enjoy. When we try to fill them out as Tops, Bottoms, Dominants, Submissives, etc. there is usually confusion over fetishes that aren't physically interactive between partners, or over activities that may not clear as to who is giving and who receiving. A sincere effort has been made here to avoid this kind of confusion, but BDSM checklists will never be perfect enough that you won't probably have to go to your partner and confer about how to answer at least one item. Take it as blessing in disguise - a BDSM checklist is only supposed to get a conversation started. That's what the tool is made for. Remember, it's just a beginning to negotiation, not an end in itself.
This check list is developed and published by femdomtraining.ca.
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