Submissive
To continue with yesterday’s topic of being born to be a submissive partner, why do some enjoy so much of being submissive in BDSM? Reasons are simple, because it is fun. It is fun for a sub to just go with the flow to simply follow the commands from her Dom; and she never has to overthink. Remember, an explicit negotiation has to be completed before any BDSM activities, protocols or rules are discussed that once it is enforced, a mutual satisfaction is often fulfilled.
The trust
An attentive Dom only gives sub what she wants and desires, as he knows her well. Sub trusts her Dom to take care of her during the entire play, and patiently anticipating the coming, the unknown, not knowing of what is going to happen next gives her the buzz, expands her capacity for immense pleasure, which is what she is striving for at all time.
In a BDSM play, as much as it may feel like Dom is in control, sub acts upon Dom’s desires; in fact, sub in BDSM play is extremely relaxing, knowing her Dom won’t harm her, or put her in any danger, but only wants her to do things that she will enjoy, to reward her from time to time when carrying out a command from Dom.
Safe Word
Sub never actually loses her controls during the play, especially knowing that she can always stop it by calling the Safe Word gives her a sense of security and greater enjoyment in BDSM activity. She can completely trust her Dom’s ability to write a good story plot for their BDSM play. Oh my goodness, subs are spoiled if you have not yet figured it out ;)
A Healthy Sub/dom relationship
Lastly, a strong and healthy sub/dom relationship is intimate; in fact, a vanilla relationship could even learn a thing or two from it, that having open and honest conversations about the interests and preferences will definitely enhance the relationship by avoiding any unexpected to keep both satisfied and fulfilled in the long run.