Role play in BDSM or regular sex is very common. It can happen in person or virtually, such as on Snapchat or via email.

Kinds of Role Play

There are many kinds of role play, such as:

  • Doctor or nurse and patient
  • Teacher and student
  • Boss and employee
  • Master and slave
  • Client and stripper
  • Handyman and housewife
  • Photographer and model
  • Homeowner and maid
  • Police officer and criminal
  • Adult and child
  • Human and animal

 

Dom/Sub dynamic during role play 

As you can see, these scenarios all involve a more dominant role and a submissive role. The person takes the dominant role are usually called the top, and during the scene, the top would be the one to decide what, when, and how the scene progresses but the bottom (the submissive) has the power to end the scene at any time by invoking the safe word.

Preparation makes all the difference 

For best results, preparation before the scene would greatly improve the experience of both parties. Without preparation, the top would have a much higher stress level of coming up with what to do next and run the risk of being boring or too much stimulation. The bottom might feel very frustrated because of things happening that she or he is not comfortable with. 

With preparation, things are much different. They would have costumes to look great in, have the right toys to play with, even set the ambiance right with lighting and sound effects. We also want to discuss what is acceptable and what is not to be tried during the play with our partners. A general timeline of what the scene would look like would also put both partners at ease. The surprise is great during role play, but we want to keep the surprise to a manageable amount.

It is an act with ourselves baked in it 

When we role-play, we would like to act like someone else with our personal touches built in. That is what makes it new and exciting. We can put ourselves in the “pleasant altered state of consciousness “that we would do things that we wouldn’t have done in the past.

Role-plays are also a great way to make our fantasies come true. Making the effort to act out your partner's fantasy would be a great way to show affection and create lifelong memories together.  

So have fun and start Playing! 

This would be great scene for those who are into captive role play. 

captive role play

 

These would be fun for long distance relationship role plays